Backyard BBQ Season Is Here: 8 Easy Tips for Hosting the Ultimate Summer Party on Philadelphia's Main Line

Summer on the Main Line brings a certain ease to life. Flip-flops are the footwear of choice, drinks are served ice-cold, and weekends fill up with one thing: backyard BBQs. If you're planning to host one this season, remember, you don’t need a sprawling yard, high-end furniture, or culinary expertise. What you really need is good food, a few comfortable spots to sit, and an atmosphere that encourages your guests to stick around.

Here are 8 straightforward tips to help you throw a BBQ that your friends will actually remember—without the stress that often comes with hosting.

1. Set the mood, not a theme

No need to go overboard with decorations. A few string lights, a playlist that matches the vibe (think classic rock, reggae, or anything that screams summer), and some candles or lanterns once the sun sets can transform your yard into a warm and inviting space.

Bonus tip: If you’re into playlists, invite your guests to contribute their favorite summer songs ahead of time. There’s something special about hearing “their” song play during the party.

2. Keep the menu simple

You don’t have to go gourmet. Stick to a few reliable favorites—burgers, hot dogs, grilled veggies, maybe some chicken or ribs. A couple of solid side dishes (like pasta salad, watermelon slices, or corn on the cob) can make a big impact. Consider setting up DIY food stations where your friends can customize their meals—think taco bar, pasta bar, or even a slider bar. And don’t forget to check if your guests have any food allergies or dietary restrictions.

Pro tip: Choose items you can prep ahead of time so you’re not juggling a million tasks when guests arrive.

3. Do the prep before people arrive

If you find yourself constantly running back into the kitchen or flipping burgers while everyone else is having fun, you’re not really hosting—you’re just working. Chop your veggies, season your meat, and set up a self-serve drink station before the first knock at the door. That way, you can enjoy the party too.

4. You don’t need matching patio furniture

Don’t stress if your outdoor seating doesn’t look like a showroom display. Mix and match chairs, lay down a few picnic blankets, or even bring out indoor stools or benches if needed. People just need a place to sit and chat while they eat.

Also, make sure there’s at least one shady spot if it’s a hot day. If you don’t have any shady trees, umbrellas or pop-up tents can help keep things cool.

5. Think about what the kids (and grown-ups) will do

If families are coming, set out a few easy games—think volleyball, sidewalk chalk, or a sprinkler for the kids to run through. For the adults, lawn games like bocce or giant Jenga are always popular. And s’mores over a fire pit? That’s a classic.

You don’t need a strict agenda, but having activities keeps the energy up—and gives everyone a reason to linger a little longer.

6. Plan ahead for bugs

Nothing ruins a backyard hangout like mosquitos. Light a few citronella candles, set out bug spray, and keep food covered when it’s out on the table. A small fan near the table helps too—bugs hate wind, and your guests will appreciate the breeze.

7. Don’t worry about decorations

Seriously, you don’t need them. A clean yard, some colorful napkins or paper plates, and a few fresh flowers in jars are more than enough. Nobody’s grading your hosting skills. They’re just happy to be invited.

8. Send people off with a little something (if you want to)

This is totally optional, but always appreciated: send guests home with a small snack, drink, or leftover treat. It doesn’t have to be elaborate—a slice of pie wrapped in foil or a to-go cup of lemonade is a thoughtful way to say thanks for coming.

Bottom line? Keep it easy.

The best backyard BBQs aren’t the ones where everything’s perfect—they’re the ones where everyone feels comfortable. Where laughter is loud, second helpings are common, and people linger long after the sun goes down.

So if you’re hosting this summer, don’t stress about making it picture-perfect. Just aim for relaxed, a little messy, and a lot of fun.